Developing Independence over the Holidays

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Summer holidays are a wonderful opportunity for children to relax, explore, and grow. However, they also present a perfect chance for parents to nurture their child’s independence in a fun and engaging way. At Wellington College Bilingual Tianjin Nursery, we believe that fostering independence helps children build confidence, problem-solving skills, and a sense of responsibility—key traits for lifelong success.

Encourage Self-Help Skills

Children thrive when they can do things on their own. Simple daily tasks can boost their confidence and autonomy.

Dressing Themselves: Let them pick their clothes (offer two choices if needed) and practice putting them on.

Packing Their Bag: Whether it’s for a day out or a picnic, have them help pack their water bottle, hat, and snacks.

Mealtime Independence: Show them where they can get the utensils,  and then set up enough spoons, forks or chopsticks for everyone. Teach them to pour their own drink, and clean their plate after eating.

Assign Simple Responsibilities

Promote Decision-Making

Allow children to make age-appropriate choices to build critical thinking.

"Would you like an apple or a banana for a snack?"

"Should we go to the park or the beach today?" (Within reasonable options)

Let Them Choose Books: Encourage them to pick their bedtime story.

Encourage Problem-Solving

Foster Social Independence

Summer is a great time for children to practice interacting with others.

Playdates: Let them take turns deciding games or sharing toys.

Ordering Their Own Food: At a café, encourage them to say, "I would like juice, please."

Greetings & Manners: Remind them to say "hello" "thank you" and "goodbye" independently.

Explore the Outdoors Independently

Prepare for the Next School Year

Independence now makes the transition back to school smoother.

Practice Putting on Shoes & Backpack

Encourage Toileting Independence (if age-appropriate)

Read Together Daily: to build focus and self-learning habits

Independence isn’t about doing everything alone—it’s about giving children the tools and trust to try. This summer, embrace small moments where your child can take the lead. Celebrate their efforts, even if things aren’t perfect. By nurturing independence now, you’re helping them grow into capable, confident learners. Wishing you a joyful and empowering summer!

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